Where are my mailboxes?

To see your mailboxes click the envelope icon (top right of screen) or click here. To see only your unread mail click ‘unread’ at the top of your mail inbox (most recent mail is shown by default).


My mail is getting blocked by the spam filter

101’s spam filter is designed to keep you safe from spammers and people trying to get you offsite to scam you. Certain words or phrases may trigger the filter such as reference to apps, some sites or bad language. If your mail will not send please check it for the above and try re-sending. If you are having problems contacting a member, try sending a short message as this is unlikely to be trapped by the filter.


I’m not getting external email ‘new mail’ alerts or other alerts for waves, views or matches

For answers and help with this question please see our email alerts help page.


Some of my mail is missing

When a member is deleted from 101 their mail is also deleted. Mail can go missing if a) we delete a spammer and their mail to you or b) they delete their account after they sent you mail.


How do I block mail from a member?

See our help page on how to block members and mail.


How can I get more mail?

To get more mail; 1) add some photos 2) don’t be shy… send some mail today! Ladies it’s ok to be the first to send mail to let the guys know you’re there – then let the guys do the chasing:)