Mail & Messages

To Send Messages

  1. First, open a member’s profile from any of the following pages: Search Profiles, your friends list (click your profile photo thumbnail top right of page and see ‘Likes‘), your sent & received messages, the Community Wall, Groups or Chatroom.
  2. Look for a blue speech bubble. However, if you see 3 dots under their profile photo, click the dots to expand options, then you’ll see 2 blue speech bubbles: one is labelled ‘Private Message‘ to send standard email-like ‘messages. NOTE: the other is live 1-1 chat (the other user must be online for this to work).
  3. To send standard message *you must enter a subject* (or the recipient cannot open it), type your message in second the box below it, then press [Send] (or [Enter] or [Return] on keypad).
  4. To chat 1-1 (if the user is online), click the second blue speech bubble (also under the profile photo under 3 dots) and a chat window will appear. Type your message and press [Return] or [Enter] on keypad.

To Open & Read Messages

  • Just click the message’s SUBJECT LINE.
    NOTE: sometimes our external ‘You have new mail’ alert emails (to Hotmail/Gmail) do not reach member’s inboxes, so periodically login to check for new mail/profile activity.

To Reply to Messages

  • Open My Messages (under profile icon top right of any page – or under three lines on mobile). Click message subject to open. Write reply and press Send. Please enter subject (or member will not be able to open), enter message below, then hit Enter or Return on your keypad!

SEARCH TIP: to see more members (our complete database) search then filter results 'A-Z'. See filters at top of page (Last On/Newest/A-Z).


CAUTION: never send money to anyone you meet on The Internet as this emboldens fraudsters and makes the web less safe for all. If anyone on my sites attempts to steer you onto WhatsApp (or chat apps) or requests money for ANY reason (on or offline) no matter how plausible (eg, accident, bills, travel etc), report it to me immediately or email epgb101@gmail.com with username. Help me keep 101 the safest meeting place on the web. Thanks.


Want to help me help Christians? The best way is to get a Green Verified Badge for your profile and verify your identity with a small donation (eg 1.00). Thanks - Ed (101 owner).


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