How to go about making connections with believers looking for a Christian spouse
There are actually dozens of ways for Christians to meet a potential help-meet – but the first step is to figure out where all the single Christians hang out! Well it turns out – many ways to make a social connection with groups of believers or single Christians who like you, are looking for a serious life partner to share marriage with exist but it might well take some pro-activity in your part to get the ball rolling. Remember – you may end up marrying the friend of your friend’s friend – so meeting any new Christian friends is a GREAT idea!
The problem is for most people is time and the fact that often they attend churches with relatively small congregations – or even churches that are so big that it can be quite hard to really get to know people and their friends properly. Anyway – despite this, there are now many ways to make new friends and meet people who share your faith and here are our top 10!
Our top 10 tips for getting single Christians..
- Make sure your social life is active – get out there and make new friends from church – and meet other people’s friends!
- Get onto the Internet and join a Christian-owned and run singles service (95% of ‘Christian’ dating sites out there are not run or owned by believers and do NOT have your best interests at heart – more likely their wallets. Watch out as you will end up paying lots of money each month for very little in return.
- Get fit and healthy – nothing is more motivating (and attractive) than someone who looks their best, and if you feel good – you will make a great and lasting impression on your date!
- Go on some speed dating events! These are a superb way to meet lots of people in a very short space of time!
- Go to visit other good churches with your friends and get to know other Christian groups!
- Go onto meetup.com and look for local Christian get togethers in your area. There are many groups setup all over the globe!
- Join your church social events list, house and home groups and any kind of social events you can go to.
- Go on a Christian holiday! I’m talking about companies like Oak Hall and others that are Christian owned and run. Meeting people whilst having fun in the sun or on the ski slopes is a fantastic way to meet new people. Many people that go on these holidays are single. I can personally attest that these holidays are great as though i have not been on one for a while – the three that I did go on were a fantastic way to make Christian connections with other single Christians and a means to meet a future husband or wife.
- Signup to go on some missions work and trips abroad. There is nothing like meeting Christians from a different part of the world for great conversation starters and interesting missions work at the same time!
- Join one of the many Christian social networks that are springing up as alternatives to Facebook. Ours is here >>
Well those are a few suggestions to get you started – we hope they help you in your walk and in finding a believing Christian spouse. God bless you.
