Some members complain that they don’t get much interest in their profile. Normally there are a few simple things that they need to do in order to be seen, heard and get more interest and mail from other members.

  1. Verified Member Gold Badge Get a Verified/Trusted Member (VM) Gold Badge.
  2. Add photos (people with photos get 10x more mail!)
  3. Send some messages! Don’t be shy! There are so many members they will not find you unless you shout! Ladies – it’s ok to be first to send mail to let the guys know you’re there – then let the guys do the chasing:)
  4. Login frequently. Members that don’t login appear further down the search results.
  5. Login also if you want to be seen in the the ‘members online’ gallery on the members homepage.
  6. Use our Matchmaker facility to let someone know you might be interested in meeting or chatting.
  7. Invite someone to the chatroom at a specific time.

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